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Home » All Things Family » The Real Hidden Agenda in Cinderella

The Real Hidden Agenda in Cinderella

Updated on July 19, 2018 | Published on March 19, 2015

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Am I the only person who watches a movie, enjoys it, and doesn’t feel a need to find all the “hidden agendas” the movie is trying to infiltrate your mind with? I feel like lately, any movie geared toward children (Frozen, for instance), gets picked apart way more than it should. I don’t know about you, but when I saw Frozen, I thought, “That was such a cute movie about sisterly love!”

When I first saw the trailer for the remake of Cinderella come out several months ago, I totally got the chills. The Disney animated version of Cinderella has always been one of my favorite stories, and to see the beautiful trailer for the movie showed me that you never are too old for a fairy tale.

Obviously the story of Cinderella has tragedy and sadness in it. However, there are so many other valuable lessons that can be learned from it. When I look back on my childhood, I never saw that movie and thought, “Wow this is so sad,” or “That Cinderella sure was crazy!” or even, “Well, I certainly can never be happy until I find a man. THEN all my problems will be solved!” I always think of a beautiful tale of someone who found the beauty in everything around them and proved that good does win.

A few weeks ago, I saw an article someone wrote about why they won’t be taking their daughter to see the new Cinderella. It made me sad, because I felt like many of the reasons were silly, and, quite honestly, it looked like the author was finding ways to be offended. Judging by the comments, it was received that way by most. Since then, I’ve seen article after article, tearing apart the movie. Saying it’s a disgrace to women everywhere, an attack on women, and it will harm little girls for years to come.

Please. Can all that just stop? Why is it that everything has to become a debate on political correctness, women’s rights, and making sure that our children never see anything that might remotely be silly, made up, or not representing the “ideal” (whatever that is). I try not to write about controversial things. But this has really bugged me!

After seeing Cinderella a few days ago, I felt like it was one of the best movies I’ve seen in a long time. Yes, there was sadness and some very unfortunate situations. However, the overarching theme was beautiful. Afterwards, as we were driving home, I talked with Forrest and my little brother about some of the different things you can learn from the story. There were so many! So, I thought I’d share what I think the real hidden agendas in Cinderella are.

(I guess at this point I should say..Spoiler alert!)

You can be a light even when surrounded by evil

There is evil and darkness everywhere (and sometimes, it seems like all I ever see is doom and gloom!) However, that doesn’t mean that you have to resort to that. No matter who you are, or where you are, you can be good. You can show kindness, love, and gratitude, regardless of what the circumstances are. No matter how dark things are, even the dimmest light can make a difference.

Everyone deserves respect, kindness, and generosity

Cinderella was kind to all – right down to the tiny mice in her home. When there appeared to be a homeless woman outside her home, she didn’t bat an eye finding her some milk. Obviously, that haggard old woman turned out to be her fairy godmother, and that’s not going to happen with every person you are kind to. However, in my short 25 years on this earth, I have discovered that being kind to people always pays off – even when you don’t want to be.

Believe

Cinderella’s mother said that she “believed in everything” when Cinderella asked if she believed in fairy godmothers. While you probably shouldn’t really believe in everything, it’s important to believe in something. Believing gives you something to hold on to when the going gets tough. Cinderella believed in being kind, as it was taught to her by her parents, and that got her through hard times. Be willing to stand up for those things that you believe in. I certainly believe that you are a stronger person when you are steadfast in the things you stand for and believe.

It’s okay to want a happily ever after

And you know what else? It’s okay to believe in happy endings and enjoy fairy tales. Life isn’t perfect, and you shouldn’t expect it to be. However, you can expect for there to be happy endings and beauty in all things, even when trials arise. I don’t believe that there’s anything wrong with hoping one day you’ll find your prince charming. My life was just fine before I met Forrest, but you know what? He was my prince charming, and my life was so much better with him in it. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with feeling that way. [From Forrest – Katie has been more of a blessing in my life than I have been to hers. In Cinderella, Prince Charming is saved from being coerced into a loveless marriage by Cinderella. Her natural goodness motivated him to raise his marriage standard and seek for her. It is clear in the movie that they are a blessing to each other. It is clear in the movie that Kit doesn’t see himself as better than Cinderella.]

To my son, I hope that you’ll be chivalrous, and that you’ll be someone’s knight in shining armor someday. It’s good to respect women and want to treat them with respect and kindness.

It’s good to be realistic, but it’s also good to believe in a little magic.

See the Good

The beginning of the movie starts by showing a scene of Cinderella’s mother and father in a field, with baby Ella. It says something how she always saw the world not as it is, but as it should be. I loved this! While I don’t think you should be totally naive to the world around you, sometimes, it’s just better to look for the good. For a long time, I followed tons of news stations on Facebook. The news media thrives on sadness and controversy. It really was negatively affecting me! So, I unfollowed most of them. I started feeling more uplifted as I focused less on the negativity in the world. I felt like I was able to see more of the good side of situations and people, instead of feeling like everyone had a hidden agenda. Sometimes, it’s good to see the world through rose colored glasses.

A  Parent’s Influence Runs Deep

Cinderella was born into a wonderful family. Her parents obviously loved her very much, as well as each other. Sadly, tragedy struck when her mother passed away when she was young, and then, years later, her father passed away as well. However, the goodness that her parents instilled in her lasted her throughout her entire life, even when she was being treated so horribly by her stepmother.

The influence that the step-mother had on her children was obvious as well. They were unkind, ungrateful, and materialistic, which appeared to be traits their mother had as well.

This isn’t to say that if you had a bad upbringing, you are doomed as well. Anyone has the power to change. However, I do believe that parents can have the greatest influence on their child, for good or bad. Often I see people talking about how fairy tales and princesses are horrible role models for children. But I think back on my life growing up – where I watched many, many fairy tales…and you know what ended up affecting me more? What my parents taught me. External influences can often have a strong effect, but I do believe the influence of a parent can be more powerful than anything else.

You Can Choose Misery or Happiness in any situation

There were two “tragic” tales told. Cinderella lost her mother at a young age, and then her father – left to the care of a step mother who mistreated her and step-sisters who only cared about themselves and material objects.

Then, there was the step-mother. She had lost her first husband – the love of her life. I can only imagine how hard that would be.

However, they both handled tragedy differently. There’s no way you aren’t affected by the death of a loved one. However, the way you handle it can affect your life forever. Cinderella chose to follow her parent’s example of kindness and optimism. Her step-mother chose another path – misery, deceit, and anger. Although both experienced tragedy and hardships, the way they chose to handle it made all the difference. Facing adversity with optimism, while hard, is worth doing.

Marry for the Right Reasons

In this movie, the idea that you should marry for advantage was perpetuated. The prince was told time and time again that he needed to marry a princess that would be advantageous toward the kingdom. At the end, the step-mother said she married Cinderella’s father for her daughters. She also wanted to make sure her daughters were married to well-established and recognized men in the city. Although I certainly believe that your spouse will hopefully make you a better person, you shouldn’t marry them simply because they have money, power, or because they are good looking.

Marry someone because you love them. Marry them because you can’t stand the thought of going a day without them. Marry them because they will help you become better than you could have been on your own. It’s more of an advantage to marry someone you love, than to marry someone who has an advantage attached to them.

Forgiveness

As Cinderella walks out the door with Prince Kit, she turns around to her step-mother and says, “I forgive you.” I don’t think she was just saying it because she knew she never had to go back. I truly believe that she showed Christ-like love and forgiveness toward someone who had wronged us. There’s so much revenge in this world. If someone wrongs another, it seems like the first thing that comes to mind is to make them pay for it or sue them. What happened to forgiveness without making the other person pay? One of the most beautiful themes of this film is that of forgiveness, and it’s one I hope everyone will remember. No matter how much someone has wronged you, you should forgive. It doesn’t mean you have to be best friends, or even associate with them…but in my experience, not forgiving someone hurts you more than it hurts anyone else.

Be Kind and Have Courage

You didn’t think I’d get through this post without sharing this, right? Be kind and have courage – this is what Cinderella’s mother told her as she was dying. It was something that stuck with Cinderella throughout her life – and I believe it’s one of the reasons why the prince fell in love with her. He saw her good heart. I absolutely loved this motto – and it’s something I hope to instill in Jack. Being kind is always the best choice, and it’s so important to have courage to not only stand up for yourself, but for your beliefs and for others (especially for those who don’t have a voice.) I believe that if more people took this motto to heart, then the world would be a better place.

Just a few notes – I realize that there are many versions of Cinderella. Obviously, I am focusing on the Disney version in this post. And if you don’t agree with me, that’s fine! Just remember to “be kind” if you decide to comment. 🙂

Katie

Katie is a Colorado-native, BYU graduated, and most importantly, wife to one and mother to three beautiful boys. She is passionate about sharing her experiences with others – especially about pregnancy, breastfeeding, cooking, and crafts. She is currently training to be a Certified Lactation Educator. She loves spending time with her family and helping others find joy in family life.

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  1. Maureen McKeon says

    December 29, 2019 at 11:34 am

    What a beautiful article! God bless you, and thank you for sharing these uplifting truths.

    Reply
    • Katie says

      December 29, 2019 at 4:41 pm

      Thank you, Maureen!

      Reply
  2. Leonie says

    September 4, 2015 at 1:39 pm

    Bravo! Finally someone who looks for the good in a film instead of being a pessimist. Well said!

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    • Katie says

      September 4, 2015 at 1:53 pm

      Thank you! 🙂

      Reply
  3. Elizabeth says

    April 24, 2015 at 11:25 am

    Amen! I sometimes just want to go and enjoy a movie, without all the social media commentary. There are so many good things we can teach our kids from these movies, and the other stuff, well, let’s “Let it go!” Have a great day!

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    • Katie says

      May 4, 2015 at 8:17 pm

      Thanks Elizabeth!

      Reply
  4. mom2vzz says

    March 30, 2015 at 1:34 am

    Thanks so much for this informative blog. We can not wait to go see Cinderella!!!

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    • Katie says

      March 30, 2015 at 8:30 am

      I hope you enjoy it! It’s really a beautiful movie.

      Reply
  5. laci says

    March 25, 2015 at 6:27 pm

    We saw it this past weekend and me and my daughter feel in live with it. When it comes out we will definitely add it to the collection. I agree with you 100% why not just relax and enjoy. I can’t help but think that ppl that pick these movies apart would be horrible to be around 🙂

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  6. Patti says

    March 24, 2015 at 3:37 pm

    Excellent! Loved the article. Spot on! Loved the movie. Though, I am not a big Disney fan, I love Cinderella. I’m blessed by her humble, kind, servant’s heart. She remained beautiful in the midst of her darkest hours.

    Reply
  7. Christy says

    March 23, 2015 at 7:50 pm

    I took my girls to see Cinderella last week and we loved the movie. This weekend the animated version came on and my 3 year old had never seen it and was so confused! LOL
    We absolutely loved the new version and the animated. I absolutely refuse to read the blogs of those who write these “theories”.
    Loved your post!!

    Reply
  8. Sharla says

    March 22, 2015 at 9:13 pm

    I haven’t seen this version of the movie yet, so I can’t completely agree, but as far as your overall viewpoint, I agree 100%. I really applaud you standing up and speaking out. This sentiment may not be the most spoken one, but I have the feeling that it’s the unspoken majority one!

    Reply
  9. Jennifer says

    March 22, 2015 at 8:40 am

    This is an amazing post — we’re doing a Cinderella Learning Unit now (so much Montessori!) and I will be sharing this post with my readers. <3

    Reply
  10. Wanda says

    March 20, 2015 at 5:31 am

    Love this post! Saw it with my 24 year old niece who also loved it. The message I saw was the same as yours.

    Reply
  11. Kendra says

    March 19, 2015 at 11:58 pm

    Love this Katie, even thought I haven’t seen the movie yet, I can tell I will feel the same away!!

    Reply
  12. Heidi @ One Creative Mommy says

    March 19, 2015 at 10:25 pm

    Great post, Katie. We loved the movie, too. (I think Cinderella’s ball gown was too low for a children’s movie, but I totally agree with all the great messages!)

    Reply
  13. Anita @ LiveLikeYouAreRich says

    March 19, 2015 at 9:15 pm

    I LOVE this! I believe in it all. It’s such a breath of fresh air. Political correctness, hidden agendas, feminism… I’m just about over all of these ‘trends”. This post speaks truth and I appreciate you writing it!

    Reply
  14. Katelyn Fagan says

    March 19, 2015 at 9:01 pm

    I loved this movie. Loved it. And I am not one of those Disney fanatics, think the original is good, but not one of my favorites, and don’t generally love movies easily, cause I’m totally a movie critic. And I thought it was beautiful, moving, and inspiring! Her story is SOOOOO sad. But, she chooses the higher ground, and makes the most of her situation, and God provides her with a reward – love and happiness. 🙂

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  15. Adelina Priddis says

    March 19, 2015 at 5:53 pm

    YES! THIS! I am so glad you chose to post this, because I feel the same way. So many movies get picked apart for the hidden meaning (books do too, but never on such a large scale). The problem is that people are looking for the bad. I don’t think intentionally, but we live in a society that seems to focus so much on negativity, that we start looking for it everywhere. If we could stop looking for the bad, and instead seeing the good, we might start creating more good instead of just adding to the bad.
    Gosh, sorry tangent. I haven’t seen the new movie yet, only because finances are tight….but I WANT to! I want to go dream about my wishes 😉

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    • Katie says

      March 19, 2015 at 10:06 pm

      You’ll love it when you see it! I agree – we do live in a world where it’s just far too easy to see the negative and bad sides of things. It really can be everywhere. I wish more people would take the time to enjoy the simpler things and take more things at face value. Thank you for commenting!

      Reply
  16. .Car1a says

    March 19, 2015 at 4:01 pm

    I cannot even tell you how much I enjoyed reading this! Thanks for such a positive perspective!!

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    • Katie says

      March 19, 2015 at 10:07 pm

      Thank you, Carla! I really appreciate your comment!

      Reply
  17. Mindy Glazer says

    March 19, 2015 at 2:03 pm

    THANK YOU!!!
    i HAVE loved Cinderella since I was a little girl! EVERY version I could watch!!! Have you ever seen the Leslie Ann Warren version? If you haven’t, YOU NEED TO! It is magical! I used to watch it each and every year when it came on T.V. ( yes…I’m in my mid 50’s, so it was a yearly event I looked forward to!) I have seen the animated versions on the big screen, and I look forward to seeing THIS new version too! I saw the previews and thought they were beautiful! My children are grown, I have no grandchildren, and I am STILL planning on seeing it! 🙂
    I am like you, I don’t see bad messages, I never taught my daughters ” NEVER believe in prince & princesses”! I never believed in not letting them see it for other bad messages either! It is a FAIRY TALE! Like all other fairy tales! Some scary parts, some nice parts, and of course, a HAPPY ending! Nothing more, nothing less! Thanks to technology, THIS version is nothing shy of GORGEOUS! Can’t we just accept that for what it is?

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  18. Jenn says

    March 19, 2015 at 1:22 pm

    I love this, thanks for sharing it. I haven’t gotten to see the movie yet but CANNOT wait to take all 4 of my girls to see it. Like you I am just beyond sick and tired of all the negativity people seem to (like you said) be looking for in EVERYTHING!!! If you don’t want to see a movie don’t go see it, you don’t have to have a huge political reason for not seeing it. Like you I grew up loving princess movies and fairy tales and I think I have grown up to be a person who enjoys life and is doing a-ok, I think it takes much more than a movie or two (or 20) to change a person as much as these other people seem to think they will.

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  19. Jill @ Blog Chicka Blog says

    March 19, 2015 at 12:59 pm

    LOVE this post Katie! You go girl! I LOVED that movie! Better than the animated one!

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    • Katie says

      March 19, 2015 at 1:01 pm

      Thank you Jill! We loved it as well. I felt so uplifted afterwards. I agree – better than the animated (and I loved that one!)

      Reply
    • Karen Williams says

      March 20, 2015 at 1:33 pm

      Though I don’t entirely agree with you, I totally agree that now days people “look for a reason to be offended” I could go deep into that subject but not here, not today. I too loved the Disney animated .stories as a child and as an adult. My three grown children and my son-in-law still watch them at my house. People get tired of R rated action/adventure.. Now there is some real fantasy! All my children grew up with these Disney movies and they are all independent, working, respectable well adjusted people. My favorite story was Peter Pan which taught that you have to grow up sooner or later; we can’t stay in Never-land. BTW I have not seen the new Cinderella but because of your post now I am. Thanks!

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