Looking for tips for going on a road trip for with a baby? Be sure to check out this post
Since Jack has been born, we’ve driven from Utah to Colorado (and back) a couple of times, and flown several times — twice being cross country. Despite my fears, it wasn’t as hard as I thought. We have been blessed with a baby who LOVES to fly, and somehow is comforted by the sound of the plane (he actually falls asleep listening to airplane noises almost every night.) Well, after these few flights, I consider myself a semi-expert, and thought I’d share some of my “wisdom” with any other flying moms and dads out there. And please ignore how grungy I look in this picture. It was early, and I didn’t want to put much effort into getting all cute for a flight.
1. Something to Suck On
2. Baby carrier
Although we took our stroller and car seat to the gate, I always put Baby J in my baby carrier. When he was younger, I used my homemade Moby wrap, and this last trip, I used my mei tai. This has seriously made all the difference. Not only does this free up our stroller, and let us put some of carry-ons in the stroller. I also found another benefit — you don’t have to go through the big scanner at the airport security. They just swab your hands — to check for explosives — and then you can go right on through. I’ve passed by quite a few lines because of this. The picture at the beginning of this post is what I looked like going through the airport (minus a few bags we added later.) I’m sure I was quite the site, but it made it so much easier. Ergo baby carriers are SUPER popular, and I really want one with our next baby. Either way, get a baby carrier. You won’t regret it (here’s a few reasons why.)
3. Anticipate delays
We used to breeze through the security lines with no problem. Now that we have Baby J, it’s a completely different story. Just check out this picture of what our most recent trip looked like:
3. Gate check stroller/car seat
Take my word on this — if you are planning to bring your stroller and/or car seat, it is worth it to lug it along to the gate. I have heard from countless sources that checking these items with your luggage isn’t the best idea, because they aren’t handled very well. I’d rather not risk having my car seat or stroller get messed up from being thrown around with all the rest of the luggage. Taking it to the gate ensures that it gets nicely placed onto the airplane, and the risk of it being damaged is low. Some people just leave their strollers at the gate with no protection, and that seems just fine. However, we are a bit paranoid, and since we want these items to last for at least one more kid, we try to protect them as much as possible. There’s several different bags out there that will help protect your stroller or car seat. We purchased this one, and it’s served us well. It isn’t technically made to hold the car seat and stroller, but we’ve made it work just fine. I would purchase a little more heavy duty of one, if you are going to check it with your luggage, but otherwise, this one helped protect it from rain more than once.
4. Curb Check
This one will put you out about 5-10 bucks, but we’ve found it’s totally worth it. Since Baby J was born, we’ve gone from traveling with one suitcase each, to pushing the free baggage limit on Southwest (and that’s not including our cleverly packed carry-ons, and stroller). After we’ve unloaded everything, we can barely make it the 10 feet to the curbside check-in, let alone the inside check-in desk. It’s so much nicer, just leaving our luggage with the curb guys, getting our boarding passes there, and just going straight to security. It’s much easier than standing in the never-ending check-in line, attempting to drag all of our luggage along with us. And, don’t come back and yell at me if this isn’t the case at your airport, but they never weigh our luggage at the curbside check-in. Seriously. It’s playing with fate, but we’ve been banked on this happening quite a few times, when our luggage is over weight (usually by less than 5 ponds), especially after Christmas.
6. Bring lots of diapers, wipes, and snacks (if baby is eating solids)
Take my word for it. Your baby will have a massive blowout diaper while on the plane. Even if it never happens in day-to-day life…There’s something about traveling that makes this happen with babies. Be sure to bring as many diapers as you will think you need, plus a few extras. And don’t forget lots of wipes. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve thought I had wipes, only to realize I left them in another diaper bag…and we’ve had to resort to using paper towels in the bathroom. Not fun. Always bring more than you need. They are also nice to have, just to do a quick cleanup after eating a meal on the airplane, or just to wash hands.
If your baby is eating solids, be sure to bring along some snacks, and baby food if it will be during a meal time. I highly recommend purchasing baby food in pouches, because then you don’t even have to worry about bring a spoon. Having a good stock of puffs (for the baby…and you! Or are we the only ones that love eating those?!) and whatever other snacks your baby likes. It definitely occupies them, making it less likely that they will cause havoc. If you do bring baby food, especially in the jars, try and remember to have them easily accessible. When you go through security, they will more than likely make you take them out of your bag and do some kind of test on them (they did for us, at least!) And when you are on the airplane, having easy access will be a huge help. This goes for any item your baby might need during the flight. Having a baby on your lap, and trying to rummage through a bag, can be difficult.
6. Bring the Birth Certificate
Because children under 2 fly free on most airlines. And even if it’s very obvious that your child is under one, a birth certificate is required. I’ve heard from quite a few people that they didn’t realize this was a requirement, so definitely don’t forget. We put off picking up Baby J’s birth certificate until right before we went on our first flight with him at three months, and we almost forgot. I can’t imagine it would be very fun to get all the way to the airport, only to be old
7. Inflight Bassinet
This really depends on what airline you are flying on, and I think it’s mainly just for international flights. But some airlines have a bassinet that people can use for their child to sleep in during the flight. I’ve heard mixed reviews about these — some love them, some hate them. But if your child doesn’t like to sleep in your arms, this might be a good option. Even if an airline says they do provide these, but aware that they are usually available in limited quantity, and in a first come, first serve basis.
I did see that you can buy your own in-flight bassinet. I LOVE this idea!
Airplanes can get pretty chilly. And it seems like babies are more susceptible to changes in temperature than some people. Sure, the airplane might have those itchy, paper thin blankets available, but bringing your baby’s favorite blanket along can help a lot as well. Not only will it keep your baby nice and warm, but sometimes, having a comforting object from home can make being in an unfamiliar place a little bit easier.
9. Ask for help (or look desperate)
While there are probably going to be quite a few people on your flight that are cursing the fact that a baby is also on board, there are also bound to be a few nice people. I’ve been lucky enough to encounter these people for the most part. On the first leg of our flight to North Carolina, there was the nicest lady, about my mom’s age, who carried a few of our bags on for us, and saved us a spot next to her. She was in the boarding group A, and she wanted to make sure that Forrest and I could sit together. During the whole flight, she was so kind, and helped us afterwards as well. She was seriously a life saver, and I’m not sure how that first flight would have gone without her. And, if you look desperate enough, someone is bound to help. It seems like Forrest always has to run and get something right when we are about to board, and almost every time, some nice person has shown pity on me and helped.
10. Early Boarding
Be sure to check and see if your airline has family boarding. Sadly, most airlines have done away with this, but some, like Southwest, have it still. Southwest lets families board between the A and B ticket groups. And if you are like us, and always get a bad boarding group, this can be really helpful. Obviously, if you are able to select your seats before boarding, this probably isn’t as big of a deal, but if it’s a free-for-all flight like Southwest, being able to board a little bit early can make a big difference. I think I would go crazy if Forrest and I had to be separated, especially now that Baby J is older. He’s quite the wiggly worm, and it often takes two of us to make sure he doesn’t squirm away.
11. Entertainment (for older babies)
Baby J didn’t need much to occupy him when we flew when he was three months. He pretty much slept the entire time. However, when we flew to Colorado for Christmas, it was a little bit of a different story. He wanted to jump and play and kick the seat in front of us. And unfortunately, we didn’t have much to entertain him. But, we did have our phones, and luckily had downloaded a baby rattle app that he loved, and it calmed him down a little bit. If you have a tablet, those can come in handy. We recently downloaded the Fisher Price apps for the iPad, and seriously…they are the best invention ever!
12. For Formula Fed Babies
We didn’t have to worry about warming bottles, since Jack was breastfed. However, I’ve seen many women ask what to do about warming water for formula on a plane. From everything I’ve read, most flight attendants are willing to microwave some water for a bottle if you ask. You could also ask for water from a coffee pot but make sure you let it cool down.
One person I know said just to buy a bottle of water before you get on the plane. Chances are, it will have warmed up before your baby needs it. So that probably works, too!
13. Don’t Worry
Something is bound to go wrong. Your husband might decide to run and get water, or go to the bathroom, unknowingly before you are about to board, and leave you with a baby, a stroller and car seat already in a bag, and four carry-on bags If your baby cries, people will glare at you. Just remember this — it’s okay. As the old proverb goes, “This too shall pass.” No flight goes on forever (even though it might seem like it), and you will eventually reach your destination safe and sound. Just try and prepare as much as possible, and just hope for the best!
Do you have any good advice for flying with babies? How about toddlers? That’s our next phase in life, and I imagine it’s a little more difficult!