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		By: Katie		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Aug 2016 20:51:50 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.clarkscondensed.com/be-careful-be-kind/#comment-172908&quot;&gt;Alie B&lt;/a&gt;.

Sometimes it takes experiencing something like this to help us to be more empathetic to others! I am glad your baby was okay. We are so hard on ourselves as moms aren&#039;t we =)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.clarkscondensed.com/be-careful-be-kind/#comment-172908">Alie B</a>.</p>
<p>Sometimes it takes experiencing something like this to help us to be more empathetic to others! I am glad your baby was okay. We are so hard on ourselves as moms aren&#8217;t we =)</p>
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		By: Katie		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jun 2016 21:43:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.clarkscondensed.com/be-careful-be-kind/#comment-173578&quot;&gt;Shar&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you so much for sharing your experience. It really can be easy to think, &quot;Wow who would do that?!&quot; or something similar. I think we all feel that we just love our children too much to let anything happen to them. But something can happen in the blink of an eye to the most diligent of parents. I can tell you are a wonderful parent, as was my mother (who wrote this). Scary things can happen to any of us, and I really appreciate you sharing your story!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.clarkscondensed.com/be-careful-be-kind/#comment-173578">Shar</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you so much for sharing your experience. It really can be easy to think, &#8220;Wow who would do that?!&#8221; or something similar. I think we all feel that we just love our children too much to let anything happen to them. But something can happen in the blink of an eye to the most diligent of parents. I can tell you are a wonderful parent, as was my mother (who wrote this). Scary things can happen to any of us, and I really appreciate you sharing your story!</p>
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		By: Shar		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jun 2016 02:55:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you for sharing. I still remember like it was yesterday when that doctor in California forgot her baby in a car and he died. I was horrified. How could she? She must be a horrible mom. Then one day I had to run to the pharmacy. I had to take my husband&#039;s suburban - a car I&#039;m not familiar with. I took my daughter too. Not sure why. She fell asleep. I was distracted and got out of the car. Got my prescription and wandered around a bit. Then my heart dropped when all of a sudden I realized I forgot her. Fortunately it was early evening and the sun was going down. It was mild temp and when I dropped everything and ran to the car, she was fine and still snoozing away. But in that moment I realized just how easy it is. You&#039;re exhausted and overwhelmed and your mind is going 800mph. Things happen. No matter how loving and devoted we are, things still happen. That  was the last time I passed judgement or said &quot;I would never....&quot;  I&#039;ve also lost my son, 10 years old at the time, at my nieces naval academy graduation. And forgot my daughter at art camp because I got pulled into a meeting at work and got sidetracked. Completely forgot she wasn&#039;t at the babysitters. I am the most devoted mom. I too have gone on every single field trip, band concert, soccer game, track meet, swim meet. I was PTO president, yearbook mom and front and center at any and every event. I&#039;ve kissed boo boos, wiped tears and spent countless sleepless nights worrying about anything and everything. My kids are now in college and high school. They are healthy, happy and well adjusted and no worse for the wear. They are my heart and soul and my world revolves around them. And I am a good mom.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for sharing. I still remember like it was yesterday when that doctor in California forgot her baby in a car and he died. I was horrified. How could she? She must be a horrible mom. Then one day I had to run to the pharmacy. I had to take my husband&#8217;s suburban &#8211; a car I&#8217;m not familiar with. I took my daughter too. Not sure why. She fell asleep. I was distracted and got out of the car. Got my prescription and wandered around a bit. Then my heart dropped when all of a sudden I realized I forgot her. Fortunately it was early evening and the sun was going down. It was mild temp and when I dropped everything and ran to the car, she was fine and still snoozing away. But in that moment I realized just how easy it is. You&#8217;re exhausted and overwhelmed and your mind is going 800mph. Things happen. No matter how loving and devoted we are, things still happen. That  was the last time I passed judgement or said &#8220;I would never&#8230;.&#8221;  I&#8217;ve also lost my son, 10 years old at the time, at my nieces naval academy graduation. And forgot my daughter at art camp because I got pulled into a meeting at work and got sidetracked. Completely forgot she wasn&#8217;t at the babysitters. I am the most devoted mom. I too have gone on every single field trip, band concert, soccer game, track meet, swim meet. I was PTO president, yearbook mom and front and center at any and every event. I&#8217;ve kissed boo boos, wiped tears and spent countless sleepless nights worrying about anything and everything. My kids are now in college and high school. They are healthy, happy and well adjusted and no worse for the wear. They are my heart and soul and my world revolves around them. And I am a good mom.</p>
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		By: Alie B		</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 May 2016 23:51:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you so much for sharing this story. We all need a reminder sometimes, not to judge others based on their mistakes. My firstborn once rolled off the change table when she was about 8 months. I had one hand on her, while I leaned over to wash her poo off the other. I didn&#039;t think she was strong enough to overtake my one hand, but she was. My heart absolutely dropped! She was laying there on the floor, wailing, and I didn&#039;t know what to do at first. What if something was broken and I hurt her even more? My husband walked in as I was explaining my hesitation. He said &quot;for goodness sakes, just pick her up&quot;, which I did, and she was immediately quiet. She was scared, but otherwise absolutely fine. I felt truly blessed, and since then, have tried never to judge other parents.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much for sharing this story. We all need a reminder sometimes, not to judge others based on their mistakes. My firstborn once rolled off the change table when she was about 8 months. I had one hand on her, while I leaned over to wash her poo off the other. I didn&#8217;t think she was strong enough to overtake my one hand, but she was. My heart absolutely dropped! She was laying there on the floor, wailing, and I didn&#8217;t know what to do at first. What if something was broken and I hurt her even more? My husband walked in as I was explaining my hesitation. He said &#8220;for goodness sakes, just pick her up&#8221;, which I did, and she was immediately quiet. She was scared, but otherwise absolutely fine. I felt truly blessed, and since then, have tried never to judge other parents.</p>
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		By: Katie		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2015 03:39:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.clarkscondensed.com/be-careful-be-kind/#comment-153865&quot;&gt;Babzanne Barker&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you for being willing to share - I&#039;m glad you decided in the end to let me post this :) I just approved a few more comments you may not have seen.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.clarkscondensed.com/be-careful-be-kind/#comment-153865">Babzanne Barker</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you for being willing to share &#8211; I&#8217;m glad you decided in the end to let me post this 🙂 I just approved a few more comments you may not have seen.</p>
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		By: Katie		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2015 03:38:34 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.clarkscondensed.com/be-careful-be-kind/#comment-151799&quot;&gt;Katie&lt;/a&gt;.

I really appreciate that you shared your story! I feel like so many mother&#039;s feel like they can&#039;t tell anyone when something like this happens, because there is so much negativity surrounding the subject. I totally agree with your reasonings for why we are so quick to judge. I know that I&#039;ve experienced both of those! Motherhood is a very humbling thing.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.clarkscondensed.com/be-careful-be-kind/#comment-151799">Katie</a>.</p>
<p>I really appreciate that you shared your story! I feel like so many mother&#8217;s feel like they can&#8217;t tell anyone when something like this happens, because there is so much negativity surrounding the subject. I totally agree with your reasonings for why we are so quick to judge. I know that I&#8217;ve experienced both of those! Motherhood is a very humbling thing.</p>
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		By: Katie		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2015 03:35:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.clarkscondensed.com/be-careful-be-kind/#comment-153184&quot;&gt;Amanda&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you for sharing your story. It&#039;s scary how things like this can happen - because they can happen to anyone. There&#039;s no doubt that you love your child!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.clarkscondensed.com/be-careful-be-kind/#comment-153184">Amanda</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you for sharing your story. It&#8217;s scary how things like this can happen &#8211; because they can happen to anyone. There&#8217;s no doubt that you love your child!</p>
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		By: Babzanne Barker		</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2015 03:06:33 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you so much to everyone who commented on my story. It was many years before I told anyone about my experience because I was afraid of what their reaction would be. I am grateful for the opportunity to share it now, and for your kind words.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much to everyone who commented on my story. It was many years before I told anyone about my experience because I was afraid of what their reaction would be. I am grateful for the opportunity to share it now, and for your kind words.</p>
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		By: Katie		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2015 21:17:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.clarkscondensed.com/be-careful-be-kind/#comment-152322&quot;&gt;Anita&lt;/a&gt;.

Thanks for sharing your experience, Anita! I think that when people see a child in the car, they are too quick to freak out, rather than try and help the situation (especially in your situation. She could have easily just said something like, &quot;I just wanted to make sure you didn&#039;t forget your baby. Even though you obviously were close enough to him.) I think we live in a &quot;gotcha&quot; society, where people just want to call other people out. I definitely am working on being kinder and less judgmental. It&#039;s hard!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.clarkscondensed.com/be-careful-be-kind/#comment-152322">Anita</a>.</p>
<p>Thanks for sharing your experience, Anita! I think that when people see a child in the car, they are too quick to freak out, rather than try and help the situation (especially in your situation. She could have easily just said something like, &#8220;I just wanted to make sure you didn&#8217;t forget your baby. Even though you obviously were close enough to him.) I think we live in a &#8220;gotcha&#8221; society, where people just want to call other people out. I definitely am working on being kinder and less judgmental. It&#8217;s hard!</p>
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		By: Katie		</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2015 21:15:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.clarkscondensed.com/be-careful-be-kind/#comment-152448&quot;&gt;Leslie Hefner&lt;/a&gt;.

Thank you for taking the time to comment Leslie! I definitely often need the reminder to be less judgmental and more kind. I&#039;m glad I have the example of my mother - and I&#039;m so glad that she was willing to share her story.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.clarkscondensed.com/be-careful-be-kind/#comment-152448">Leslie Hefner</a>.</p>
<p>Thank you for taking the time to comment Leslie! I definitely often need the reminder to be less judgmental and more kind. I&#8217;m glad I have the example of my mother &#8211; and I&#8217;m so glad that she was willing to share her story.</p>
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